It doesn’t seem to matter how many car loads or how often I declutter to donate or sell, it ALWAYS seems to come back in. Not the exact same stuff, obviously, but stuff always comes back in. I’m sure this would be bad enough if it were just me (hello craft supplies!) but with two kids… I swear their toys are reproducing during the night.
Minimalism seems like an ideal to me. Some days, many days, I would love to just sell everything and live in one of those retro buses or campers. How fun would that be?! But then the reality is… I have kids, I’m a little sentimental, and I’m a crafter.
I’ve been reading things on a minimalist lifetstyle and capsule wardrobes for some time now. In writing and in beautiful photos, it appears absolutely delightful. My closet and shoe collection is probably much more modest than most and I try not to have things I don’t really use or need, but, like I said, stuff always comes back in. It doesn’t stop.
So last night I watched a documentary on Netflix. You may have heard of it — Minimalism: A Documentary About The Important Things. It’s so good! The guys in the documentary are so inspiring and charismatic about this lifestyle that I had difficulty sitting through the movie, because I wanted to get up right then and start purging everything.
It’s ridiculous how much stuff we can acquire. For instance, last week I started going through my kitchen. Why does a family of 3 need 25 cups and 7 lunch bags? I don’t even know where they came from! We have board games coming out our ears, yet many of them require 4 people to play and we almost never have people over long enough. And don’t get me started on art and craft supplies. Granted, I enjoy it immensely, but lack of space makes it a bit overwhelming. I’ve actually, on more than one occasion, considered turning my bedroom or the living room into my art studio. Who needs to sleep, right?
After watching the documentary last night, I knew some things had to go. The first thing I tackled were our board games. About half of them are now stowed away for our church yard sale this Fall. Next, I did another swipe of my closet. Not sure what comes next, but the toys are looking VERY tempting. My main goal here is to minimize the clutter and the stress and to fill our home with things that are useful and that bring us enjoyment.
“Love people and use things, because the opposite never works.” – The Minimalists
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I have also been dabbling in minimalism. I think it’s a little challenging with children but I get the heart behind it. Go for the toys! It is life changing to get down to what your child will ACTUALLY play with.
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No kidding!! My kids want to keep everything from toys to trash!
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We had our auction last summer and sold 99% of what we owned. We now live in a fifth wheel and travel for carpentry ministry. Do I miss having things? No, not usually. This is our season in life though. The kids are grown and we have the freedom to pursue our God given purpose. Minimalism has its good side but also there are a few areas of minimalism to consider before actually making the plunge.
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Oh wow! How exciting!!
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I actually started my minimalist journey over the past few years. Everyone has a different journey. I love mine. As the school year approaches, not having to pick out the perfect outfit and accessories but at the same time being excited about what I am going to wear is refreshing. Not having to clean up and through mounds of unused items. I have a way to go, but I have come a LONG way. Keep documenting the process. I’m excited to see it! #HisGraceGirls
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How wonderful!! I find the school year to be the hardest. There’s just so much paper that comes in. 😬
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Yeesss!! Paper on paper on paper. Learning to manage bit by bit. I’m learning not to attach so much…
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Sort of been trying minimalism a little at the moment, That tweet is PERFECT!xo
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Thanks so much! It definitely isn’t easy.
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YES! I love this! I feel just as you described- desiring to be rid of it all, but knowing I still need to maintain what a family of 5 needs.. 🙂 Thanks for sharing!
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There’s quite a struggle there, for sure. I think it’s all about balance and finding what you actually need and truly enjoy.
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